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<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgimh547O8fAC5kuVA9hXYY38TZ1Nh55qk7HdQS0QYJ6mYTRe1zcYCdkusHGoIjA9OmT4o710yBe_PhSDO9bEq0_T_lge1VMsNNNESKti7el4vVqqfGfF-UINlvYBKSW5H2tBD9_0Aw5-w/s1600/Man-talking-to-women.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="background-color: #f3f3f3; margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgimh547O8fAC5kuVA9hXYY38TZ1Nh55qk7HdQS0QYJ6mYTRe1zcYCdkusHGoIjA9OmT4o710yBe_PhSDO9bEq0_T_lge1VMsNNNESKti7el4vVqqfGfF-UINlvYBKSW5H2tBD9_0Aw5-w/s320/Man-talking-to-women.jpg" width="178" /></a></div><br />
<div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 22px; margin-bottom: 1em; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"><span style="background-color: #f3f3f3;">Most of us as men are never taught how to talk to women.  Because of this many guys go through life without the ability to attract a woman.</span></div><div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 22px; margin-bottom: 1em; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"><span style="background-color: #f3f3f3;">Instead you might:</span></div><ul style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 18px; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 2em; margin-right: 1em; margin-top: 1em; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-align: justify;"><li style="list-style-image: initial; list-style-position: outside; list-style-type: disc; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"><span style="background-color: #f3f3f3;">Bore her</span></li>
<li style="list-style-image: initial; list-style-position: outside; list-style-type: disc; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"><span style="background-color: #f3f3f3;">Struggle to keep her interested</span></li>
<li style="list-style-image: initial; list-style-position: outside; list-style-type: disc; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"><span style="background-color: #f3f3f3;">Not be able to make her laugh</span></li>
<li style="list-style-image: initial; list-style-position: outside; list-style-type: disc; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"><span style="background-color: #f3f3f3;">Can’t be yourself around her</span></li>
<li style="list-style-image: initial; list-style-position: outside; list-style-type: disc; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"><span style="background-color: #f3f3f3;">And create NO attraction</span></li>
</ul><div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 22px; margin-bottom: 1em; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="background-color: #f3f3f3;">A lot of us  blame our lack of dating success on looks, money, power, or popularity…. But the truth is if you can learn to talk to a woman, <span style="text-decoration: underline;">flirt </span>with her, and <span style="text-decoration: underline;">turn her on</span>… you can attract women.</span></div><div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 22px; margin-bottom: 1em; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="background-color: #f3f3f3;">Now in order for you to understand how to talk to women in a way that attracts them… you must first understand what women find attractive.</span></div><div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 22px; margin-bottom: 1em; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="background-color: #f3f3f3;">To answer this we’ll start in two steps.</span></div><div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 22px; margin-bottom: 1em; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-align: justify;"><strong style="background-color: #f3f3f3; font-style: inherit; font-weight: bold;">What type of talk turns women off?</strong></div><div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 22px; margin-bottom: 1em; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="background-color: #f3f3f3;">a.) To put it bluntly women are turned off by men who across as “needy.”  Most men don’t realize that they are coming across “needy” when talking to a woman.  But the woman picks up on it quickly.  She can very quickly tell that you’re trying too hard to impress her.  When a man tries to impress a woman it actually has the opposite effect.  It turns her off.</span></div><div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 22px; margin-bottom: 1em; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="background-color: #f3f3f3;">b.)  Women are not attracted to guys that come across as insecure.  You can’t talk to women and seem like a nervous wreck and expect her to feel attraction towards you.  A woman expects a man to be powerful, confident, and secure with himself.  If she senses that you don’t possess those traits she will quickly <span style="text-decoration: underline;">lose attraction</span> towards you.</span></div><div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 22px; margin-bottom: 1em; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="background-color: #f3f3f3;">c.) Women are turned off by guys who are “<span style="text-decoration: underline;">boring</span>.”  If you’re talking a woman you need to know how to keep the conversation fun.  If you continually find yourself facing awkward silences, stuck in boring “interview mode” or talking about mundane topics like the weather… you can be sure that the woman you’re talking to will quickly lose interest.</span></div><div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 22px; margin-bottom: 1em; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="background-color: #f3f3f3;">d.) One of the major factors that will kill a woman’s attraction toward you is displaying a lack of social intelligence.  Women are social creatures.  And they blindly follow the social “norms.”  If a man doesn’t seem aware of what is socially acceptable or “cool” she will quickly dismiss him as being “below” her.  An easy way to do display a lack of social intelligence while talking to a woman is to make an inappropriate comment, not take the “cues” she is sending you, or continually tell jokes that no one finds funny.</span></div><div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 22px; margin-bottom: 1em; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="background-color: #f3f3f3;">Understanding these issues, you really can’t blame a woman for not wanting a weak, insecure, socially clueless, boring, or  needy man.  Ask yourself… do you find these sort of women attractive?</span></div><div style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 22px; margin-bottom: 1em; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="background-color: #f3f3f3;">Now let’s talk about…</span></div></div>

15 Tips on How to Talk to Women

Most of us as men are never taught how to talk to women. Because of this many guys go through life without the ability to attract a woman....