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How Couples Can Solve Cold Wars?

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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">We are all familiar with cold war 
between two countries, but how many of us are aware of cold war between 
friends or couples? In simple terms, cold war between couples can be 
defined as a hostility and rivalry between a couple that are not 
expressed openly. Fights between couples is very common and there is a 
saying which goes like 'silly fights builds up the proximity between the
 couple'. However, regular fights between couples can build a wall 
between them. This can further result in a total misery.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">It is not
 an uncommon scene these days to see most of the couple having cold war 
due to many reasons. In order to enjoy a wonderful love life, one needs 
to understand many things about how to maintain a relationship with your
 partner. If any problem arises, one should make sure that they deal 
with it smartly and not keep it to themselves. Couples must make sure 
that they need to be gentle and thoughtful in a relationship to enjoy 
its sweetness.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">In order to have a healthy relationship with your 
partner, one must maintain a respect for each others opinion. If you 
speak-out to each other openly about your relationship and doubt then 
there is hardly any room left for further uncertainties.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b>Here we give few tips to the couples to overcome their cold war and stay in harmony:</b></span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b>Leave behind your insecurities:</b><br />It
 is important to note that insecurities is very common during the 
initial stages of a relationship. Hence, one must realise that 
prevention is better than cure. Even before you think of getting engaged
 to the person you want to get married to, get into lifestyle check of 
your spouse. At the same time, even you need to be honest to accept your
 insecurities to avoid unnecessary conflicts.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b>Do not play blame game:</b><br />Blame
 game is common everywhere! Just remember that conflicts arise because 
both parties are at fault. And most of the annoyance and irritations 
primarily comes from not being secured of oneself which ultimately 
throws the blame on the other.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b>Accept mistakes:</b><br />No
 matter if it is a misunderstanding or any happy situation, every 
experience in life is an opportunity to understand that no one is above 
anybody else. Many couples fail to understand each others mistake and 
keeps on believing that they can never be wrong.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b>Acknowledge each other:</b><br />When
 you realise that you are at fault make sure you accept your mistake and
 seek an apology instead of making a big fuss out of silly arguments.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b>Stop doubting:</b><br />When
 your partner fails to meet your expectations or do not act according to
 your will, the seed of doubts surely grows. Humans have a tendency to 
doubt a character easily especially when it comes to putting someone 
down. Hence, in order to have a healthy relationship make sure you do 
not doubt your partner unnecessarily.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><b>Develop patience:</b><br />If
 an argument or a fight turns ugly, many couples easily tend to get into
 conclusions. Instead, give each other a chance to justify. Your 
sincerity and patience will move each other to be honest.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">These 
are some of the simple tips to overcome cold war between couples. Apart 
from the above tips every couple needs to remember the good times they 
have spent together. Giving surprise gifts on particular days, 
celebrating birthdays will help in developing love and affection between
 lovers.</span></span></div>

How Couples Can Solve Cold Wars?

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Relationship Tips To Avoid Divorce

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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">A marriage cannot always be good. Every
 couple doesn't end up happy and comfortable with each other. Even in 
marriages, we get to notice constant conflicts, small tiffs, anger and 
upset moods. It is nothing new and exclusive with one particular couple.
 No relationship can always show a positive angle. Even friendship goes 
through a lot of hustles and breakdowns. However, it all depends on how 
you cope with it and try to make things work. Similarly, when you are 
married, the bond is for a lifetime. So, you should try to make things 
work by sorting out differences.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><strong>Discuss problems:</strong>
 Problems can cause a lot of heck in your happy married life. So, try to
 discuss the problems. Men generally keep things within themselves and 
do not share easily. So, try to communicate and bring out the problems 
that are affecting the marriage.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><strong>Offer solutions:</strong>
 This is one of the most important relationship tips that every couple 
must follow to have a happy married life. When you know the problem, 
offer solutions and try to sort it out. This is one effective method to 
avoid divorce.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><strong>Think positive:</strong> This is another 
tip that can help stop a divorce and bring back happiness in your 
married life. If you think that divorce or separation is the only way 
left out, then it will definitely affect your approach and overall 
relationship. So, think positive and be optimistic.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><strong>Work on your mistakes: </strong>Nothing
 is one-sided. A conflict can't occur if only one is responsible or at 
fault. Even you might have contributed to it. So, rectify your mistakes,
 accept them and work on it to prevent divorce.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><strong>Bring the required changes:</strong>
 People often mistake by thinking that the same behaviour can work 
throughout the marriage. However, your attitude and behaviour needs to 
change with time and situations. So, discuss with your partner, address 
the changes that are required and work on them. This will definitely 
help stop divorce or prevent the chances of getting one.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><strong>Clear out misunderstandings:</strong>
 This is one of the root causes of a divorce. Misunderstandings can 
damage your relationship and make it difficult to bring back the lost 
trust. If you are having lots of problems in your married life due to 
misunderstandings, do not take it lightly. Clear them before it gets too
 late.</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">These are few relationship tips to prevent or avoid a divorce and have a happy married life with your spouse.</span></span></div>

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What To Do When You Meet Ex?

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When you go through a break up in a relationship, you decide that you will move on and never see your ex again. However, things cannot be the way you want. Someday, you can come across your ex partner and that moment can be really tricky to deal with. It is good if you think that after break up, you will not have to see the face of your ex love, but you should also think otherwise.</div>
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<strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">Just relax:</strong> Many a times, people panic after seeing their ex flame accidentally. The first thing that you need to do is, be calm. Relax and take a deep breath. This can help you overcome the instant tension that starts building up on your face.</div>
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<strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">Think positive: </strong>When we come across our ex flames, we only think negative. What he/she must be thinking? Am I looking bad? What if he comes and shows off his new gf? These are few common negative questions that comes to our mind. However, if you think positive, you can have a simple and perfect attitude to face your ex. So, whenever you come across your ex, do think positive.</div>
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<strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">Do not approach: </strong>If your relationship failed because of your ex, then you do not need to take an initiative. If you come across your ex flame after a harsh break up, do not take any step towards him/her. Let your ex take the initiative, if need be.</div>
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<strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">Don't fake it: </strong>There are many people who try to show off to their ex. In such situations, you should not fake it. This attempt only shows how insecure and desperate you are to get back to your ex. Always be what you are. Minor changes that are positive can be flaunted. However, make sure that you do not end up acting fake in front of your ex.</div>
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<strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">Be accurate:</strong> If you are in no mood to talk to your ex, just give straight-forward and short answers that are accurate and to the point. A yes means 'yes' and a no means 'no'. It will also keep your attitude and self confidence intact.</div>
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These are the 5 things that you should do when you come across your ex flame. Be what you are and avoid talking about the past. This will show that you have moved on. Such an attitude also shows that you are happy.</div>
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What To Do When You Meet Ex?

When you go through a break up in a relationship, you decide that you will move on and never see your ex again. However, things cannot be...